q&a | part two

question: do you have any handwritten cards or letters from your family (immediate or extended) or dear friends from back in the day?

question: if so how do you store them?

question: do you ever get them out and read them over?

Posted by: lesli streets | May 17, 2007 at 08:34 PM

i have a lot of notes that were passed between jeff and i in high school. i havent gotten them out in at least five years. i keep them in a cardboard hatbox my mom bought me when i was 15 or 16. way up high in my closet!

Ok, SERIOUS question (relatively): Are you a morning person, or a night owl?

Posted by: Sue Sykes | May 17, 2007 at 08:56 PM

a night owl, totally. i hate opening my eyes every morning. hate. so i stay up way too late, enjoying the freedom of the evening, and i pay for it every morning.

Q: Do your neighbors or people in your community know that you are this famous scrapbooker/photographer guru?

Q: Do people you don’t know come and say hey to your kids using their names b/c they “know” their names from following your blog/scrapbook pages etc?

Posted by: Leigh | May 17, 2007 at 09:07 PM

its a weird thing isnt it? i dont feel like a celeb or a guru! they see me in my pajamas everyday as i walk kenna to the bus. they hear me yell out the backdoor at my kids. i dont think they see me as a celeb or a guru either. :) a couple of my neighbors know, and the woman who delivers my mail knows, because she saw anna on the cover of simple.

the recognizing of the kids does happen. a lot of times people will say “i recognized your daughter/son first!” its pretty crazy when someone does recognize us. doesnt happen often, but whenever it does we get a good giggle out of it after. its just CRAZY that its all because of SCRAPBOOKING. who woulda thunk?

What do you do for dinner at your house? Do you cook? If so, what?
xoxoxoxo
Lain (who is always looking for good ideas).

Posted by: Lain Ehmann | May 17, 2007 at 09:15 PM

confession time: i dont cook. i want to cook. but i hate to cook. we eat out entirely too much. we need to stop. i go on binges of eating at home-cooking for the family. but i always peter out. sigh…..

QUESTION…How do you capture the spontaneous photos of your children? How do you see the extraordinary, in everything ordinary…

Posted by: Julie Winder | May 17, 2007 at 09:26 PM

i think its because i am pretty spontaneous myself. you have to know when to click the shutter. i never wait for them to look at me. im always talking to them, asking questions, making them do things that are against the rules-like jump on the bed or lick their dad…you just have to have fun and open your eyes to what you really want to capture.

i think its also that i know how precious these days are-and i want to be able to look back and remember every detail. so my drive and passion is powered by that.

Have with to agree with mommy g, would love to see your scrappin’ area. Hope you’re feeling back to your normal self soon.
S

Posted by: Susy | May 18, 2007 at 04:09 AM

that will have to be another post. i actually may have posted photos of my space somewhere on this blog. somewhere…i have my office set up in my dining room. its the first thing you see when you walk into my house. i am very “in the trenches” over here.

So, my question is this: when you are out with all your of your kids, do you ever get rude comments from people about having a “big family”?

Posted by: Kari | May 18, 2007 at 06:10 AM

i have heard it ALL. although, i have to say, it was a whole heck of a lot worse when we lived in LA. i had mckenna and drew and was pregnant with nate. pregnant and pushing around a double stroller, and then with him in the baby bjorn pushing a double stroller. it got to the point where i couldnt go to the grocery store without hearing “oh boy you have your hands full!” like every AISLE. it became an inside joke with my friends. i have gotten-“are they all yours?” “OH i thought you ran a daycare!” “do they all have the same dad?” “how are you going to pay for all of those college educations?” ” dont you know what causes that yet?” “are you planning on having MORE?”

my advice is-dont make comments on a childs size or a families size. chances are, theyve heard it all before.

If you HAD to pick between your camera and your computer and could only use one of them for the REST of your life…which would you choose?

Posted by: Jenn from MA | May 18, 2007 at 06:11 AM

that is a trick question right?

What are your kids’ middle names????

Posted by: Lauren | May 18, 2007 at 06:20 AM

the only one with any interestingness is drews. he is drew jefferson.
jeffs dads name is jamie. and jeffs middle name is jamison. (jamies son)
so drew is jefferys son (jefferson)
we tease him that he will have to call his son blank drewson, and since drewson really isnt a name, we call him that as a nickname.

what do you do all day? what’s an average day for miss tara?!!

Posted by: Stacey | May 18, 2007 at 06:41 AM

in between a lot of time at the computer proofing, answering emails, placing orders, printing, and surfing the web i:

wake up at 6:30 to get kenna on the bus by 7. wake up everyone else. get them out the door by 7:30. come home. get anna ready for school and take her at 8:15. then i come home and breathe. usually check email and work all morning. have sessions. pick up anna (she goes twice a week) at noon. run errands. take her to dance. or give her a nap. work some more. pick up the kids at 2. do homework. referee. go to the pool. watch them while they ride bikes. make snacks. clean up. get dinner (out, usually) i know its so bad! and get the kids ready for bed. jeff puts them to bed every night. their bedtime is 7. its what we’ve always done and it works for us. they do have to get up pretty early. thats when its party time. jeff and i jump into bed and watch tv or a movie or we talk or he plays video games and i get more work done. we go to bed around midnight and start all over again. i do most of my sessions on weekends and t/th mornings.

i cant believe i just fit my whole day into a paragraph. it seems so small written out like that but living it feels very very………BIG.

My question: How old are you?

Posted by: Andrea Shirey | May 18, 2007 at 07:27 AM

three oh. shhhhhhh.

If you could visit any place that has existed in a movie – where would you go?
ie. the toy factory in Toys, or the red and green Paris from Amelie…

Posted by: Melanie | May 18, 2007 at 07:28 AM

oh my gosh-SUCH A COOL idea and i dont even have to think twice. hands down no question: the north pole in the polar express.

i already know you don’t have the answer to this question, but I really wish i knew where to get some of those clip board things on your window ledge. they are soooo great!

i hope you feel better soon.

Posted by: brandie | May 18, 2007 at 07:38 AM

i googled 12×12 clipboards and found THIS: melissa francis how much do you love me?!

what’s your favorite vice? everyone needs one.
C’mon, fess up!

Posted by: melly | May 18, 2007 at 07:51 AM

mwuaaahahahaha-drumsticks (of the ice cream variety) (and yes, sometimes plural) at 10pm in bed.

Q: Since we’re kinda neighbors, what are your favorite restaurants? Hole in the walls are even better.
Q: What is your favorite snack food?
Q: Does your family have dinner together every night? What are your favorite meals?

Can’t wait to read all your answers!
-megan from sc, ca

Posted by: Megan | May 18, 2007 at 10:32 AM

hi megan. :)

fave restaurants:
natraj off alicia pkwy
miguels mexican resauraunt in foothill ranch (bigtime fave)
claim jumper
ocean burrito in oceanside
olive garden-stuffed mushrooms and zuppa toscana yummmm

fave snack foods-chips, struessel cakes, coke with ice, nuts

and we do have dinner together every night-its just usually at one of those places i listed above. ;)

1) What’s the one expression you’ve never captured on film?
2) What was it like to be a HoFer with Cathy?

Posted by: Michelle | May 18, 2007 at 10:47 AM

1)pain
2) totally totally fun. we were on the phone with each other when we both got our HOF calls. it was the best.

What’s your favorite ride at Disney? And, what’s the one snack you can’t live without??

:) Melissa

Posted by: Melissa Raphael | May 18, 2007 at 11:59 AM

thunder mountain and simply dipped drumsticks.

Q: if you could live anywhere in the world at all.. where would you chose?

Posted by: eLiZaBeTh | May 18, 2007 at 06:14 PM

san francisco. or england.

Just curious on your religious views.
You are my photographic hero!

Posted by: Leah | May 18, 2007 at 09:07 PM

my views are-if youve got views, more power to you! :)
just dont kill anybody or hate anybody because of it.
i personally am not a religious person. i was at one time in my life and it didnt fit. most of my extended family and a lot of my friends are though, and i love that we can all co-exist happily with our differences. i love differences. they really do make life so interesting.

do you like tori amos??

:) simple question hee hehe

Posted by: jenn | May 19, 2007 at 08:24 PM

kind of. not really. a little bit. (not a simple answer) haha

whew! the questions are done! it was so fun answering them. they made me think and laugh and remember. good stuff…….from wonderful people. thank you!

and thankfully, i am feeling better. it turns out, i have epstein barr. and i think i have it chronically, or have had it for most of my life. i felt really bad for about two months, but i feel like i have turned a corner now. thank you so much for all the happy thoughts and well wishes. i hope that i just keep feeling better!

i got home this week from utah where i was doing sessions. i have so many fun photos to proof-i cant wait to show them off here asap.

the unforgettables

i came to know about the unforgettables foundation by way of karen wilson, who is the executive director.

this is their mission, taken from their website:

• Encourage communities to recognize the financial trauma which is often associated with death of a child;

• Enable low-income families to give their children a dignified burial;

• Empower communities to memorialize children who have died;

• Educate parents and children’s caregivers to confront, control and conquer the primary risks to our children’s health and wholeness.

karen is organizing a crop with proceeds going to benefit the foundation. you can find information on the crop here: crop blog.

im not even sure how to word how i feel about this… my daughter mckenna could have died due to her burns. i have met and heard of amazingly strong families who have lost children and are still pulling through every day. a dear client of mine named anna shared her story here on my blog. not to mention the recent deaths of the coble children that put me into a downward spiral for days. no one should have to lose a child. in some small way, the unforgettables foundation tries to help the process go smoother, and with empathy.

when karen told me about the crop, i decided the best thing to do was to donate a session to be raffled off. and you dont have to be local to enter. if you are interested, the information to enter the raffle and buy tickets to the crop can be found on karens blog.

it must be the hormones in our food

because i certainly didnt look this hot when i was a senior in high school! this is one of my younger sisters, who is graduating this month. i have lots to show-im so proud of the person she is. she cares so much about world issues and actually does something about it. she has gone into chile and mexico to build houses with her church group. she also organized a charity concert to raise money for Invisible Children.

last week we met up in huntington beach and shot her senior portraits.

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