family of five at the santa monica pier • los angeles photographer

this is the third and final session from the L.A. trifecta!

and what a perfect way to end the day. sunset under the pier….one of my favorite places at my favorite times.

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this five-some treated me like one of the gang from the moment we met. the three kids were curiously interested in what we were going to do, and were TOTALLY into the session the whole time. i cant remember that ever happening before! mom is another preschool teacher at the seed. she is also another tara, only she says it the opposite of me, (tar-a sounding like car instead of care) so that was tongue twisty – making sure to say her name correctly all night! i dont think she would have cared had i slipped though, so gracious and down to earth she was. the pier was PACKED when we got there and i was a little stressed out, but their happy relaxation rubbed off on me and we had a perfect time walking around together.

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(that top left shot was their christmas card)

we played a game i sometimes play-where i tell everyone to hurry! every time i count to three i want you to move and change places! well, the first time we did it, momma ended up alone…look how that played out…

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look at these beautiful faces.

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and at this beautifully goofy one!

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after the pier, as you can see, we went down to the sand for a little bit of beachy time. i love this green wood wall and wish it was what my house was made out of.

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sometime over the course of the evening, i heard how tara and justin met. he saw her standing with another girl in central park and walked up to talk to them. he thought she was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, and he thought immediately that he would marry her. he also thought she was swedish, because she didnt talk. the other girl did all the talking. the other girl turned out to be tara’s identical twin sister. but justin swears he never noticed her, he only had eyes for tara. they were engaged in the same spot they met. and now they have all of this.

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i also wanted to talk about and link to the charity that justin created, called No Next. in 1984 he lost his brother greg to a brain tumor. 20 years later, he lost his sister carolyn to the same disease. because brain tumor research is so critically under funded, his passion to find a cure is a huge priority in their lives. his story about his family touched my heart, and i immediately knew i would want to share it here. with the help of trevor (the father from the bathtub shoot), who lost his only sibling to a brain tumor just 8 years ago, they recently held a very successfull concert that raised 25k for Duke University Brain Cancer Research.

if you have someone in your life who has been affected by brain cancer, or if you know someone who has, please check out their website for information.

thank you rubins.

xo

tara

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31 Comments

  1. First of all, we were supposed to come stay there at the beach in S.M. for Christmas but got SNOWED in and couldn’t make it down. Happliy we have rescheduled the trip for July and you know I can’t wait to break out my camera on my family there at the pier!

    Second, the series of pics where mom got left alone and then the daughter switching sides put a lump in my throat! SWEET!

    Lastly, my husband lost his sister (who was also his best friend) to a brain tumor at the age of 30. She was pregnant and they were able to save the baby but not her. It has been such a tough thing for his family. Thank you for the information about no next.

  2. thanks for posting this tara. my brother got through radiation treatment at the end of last year for a brain tumor. He just turned 22 in february. it looks like they got it and that he will be well again. so glad to read about awareness spreading!

    and of course, very fun photos!

  3. As usual, loved the photos – my favorite was the three kids on the beach, the middle boy is jumping in the air – lovely children. Funny that you mentioned MCP Actions, I looked at their site this morning and really liked what I saw. I also want to note that I like ALL of your advertisers……a few nice shopping spots, another where I might take an on-line photo class, etc. I’ve never been on a Blog that has so many great Advertisements…..just thought you’d like to know :)

  4. great pictures Tara! Great story too about their charity work. I will for sure take a look at the link as I lost my dad to a brain tumor about 16 years ago. My kids and their cousins actually call themselves the “can change cousins” and they collect cans and change and donate the $ they get from it to a different charity every few months. This looks like a good one to donate to since we’ve all been affected by it. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Your pictures are so fun to look at. I always check your site. Can you recommend online classes or SoCal classes for an intermediate photographer who still has lot to learn? Thanks xxoo Rebecca

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