jalayne and i met in mrs. stonebreakers class.
in the ninth grade.
we hated each other. but only at first, and only when we tried really really hard. because as it turned out, we actually really liked each other. a lot. and we were pretty much attached at the hip from 9th-12th grade. we even went to the same college as planned, but it got a little complicated after that with me getting married and knocked up (not in that order) and her finishing college and graduating and traveling and working and studying. even through the complicated bits we did our best to remain connected and it was always amazing when we did make time for the phone call or the visit, how easily we fell back into our worn in friendship.
jalayne is like my barometer. she knew me when. we have history. we have a story. and the best part, we’ve been a part of each others stories for going on almost 20 years.
she was the girl i used to skip through magic mountain with, trailing our boys behind us, sucking on mustard packets.
the girl who babysat my sisters with me, even when neither of us wanted to.
the girl who i snuck around with, but forgot to tell her, and who i got caught without.
the girl who would make her government tests readily available for my prying eyes.
the girl i modeled with and photographed in my parents home.
the girl whose bedroom i knew as well as my own because we shared equal time between the two.
she went through my country/hip hop/metal phase with me.
she helped me through a miscarriage. she taught me about Jyotish. and last october, she asked me to come up north for the weekend to photograph her family. and i did.
we started out with jalayne and her awesome boyfriend justin. justin has lived in san francisco for something like 15 years? works in the castro. apt in the tenderloin. so thats exactly where we hung out. after a quick shopping trip for a new shirt for jalayne, and sushi at blowfish, i put them right to work.
got crazy with the photoshop here, but i dig it!
i have always LOVED jalaynes face. i quickly came to love justin’s as well. i love these next three.
random old tv sighting, tara runs them across the street to work this OUT.
somebody named justin wasnt too KEEN on sitting here. i take no prisoners. he learned quickly. and jalayne, oh jalayne….that look. BEAUTY! CONTENT!
LOVE the body language here.
justin is an amazing carpenter. he isnt just a carpenter. he is an artist. he has PASSION for this. he makes the most amazing furniture and cabinetry. when i saw this plywood wall i had to get him in front of it.
“so guys, what tricks can you do?”
this was at the beginning when they were still warming up. so a little nervous, a little goofy. i LOVE the expressions. photos taken one right after the other.
one of their hang outs. the bar at the grand.
justin rocking the deck shoes. LOVE!
this one might be my favorite. she looks so safe. he looks so strong. they look so content.
how did i luck out to find a PARKED/ABANDONED taxi???
as the sky darkened, we got in the car and headed up to carmel, where her parents own property on a preserve. on our second day together, because she is my best friend, AND ONLY BECAUSE SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND, i agreed to shoot their entire family together. ;) i normally run screaming from the “large family group session”. just not what i like to do! but for the people i love, how can i say no? :)
just before i brought EVERYONE outside though, i wanted to get some of the two of them with their doggies. Django (the lab) and Torch. this is torchie. the most gorgeous little love of a dog ive ever met. torch is their new little boy.
and django, who has been jalaynes best girl for many years, and who is possibly the smartest dog ive ever met. she understands english. im not kidding. like, CONVERSATION.
sweet old girl
and then i brought everyone out
this is her brother bryan and his family, her mom sherri, and her stepdad jerry. we also did some of the parentals in and around their AMAAAAAZING house.
on the third day, we headed into monterey for the shoot with her brother and his wife summer and their two little men. i LOVE the emotion, laughter, color on these!
and i LOVE this one. perfect family shot. not too contrived, everyone doing their thing, momma looking RADIANT.
oh, just one more of the doggies. at the beach. fetching a starfish stuffy out of the waves.
so hows that for a blogging comeback? am i back on your good sides?
don’t know you personally….but missed you! Welcome back and I LOVE the taxi image.
AM—-A—-ZING. You inspire me to the outskirts of the sky and beyond. Thank you Thank you!
you were so never in my bad books. but i love all the pics. ATE ‘EM UP.
WOW! Jaw dropping on the floor WOW! Are you coming to Chicago at all this year? Please say yes. Pretty please…
always, Tara!
So much awesomeness in these pix I don’t which to love more.
You will always be on our good side because you are AMAZING!
wonderful shots! i love the ones on the street. excellent! something you said made me think of a question. sharon has run into this a couple of times now. you discuss a shoot with a client. you schedule it. you show up…then the whole family is there instead of just the 4 grand kids like you’ve been told and agreed on. what do you do in the moment? how do you not look like a jerk…but also keep a fair / contractual boundary right there in front of everyone? thoughts?
Hell, yeah, you are back! Love the inspiration from the pictures.
jeramy, ive never had that happen. but i am pretty clear that i only shoot one nuclear family at a time. if sharon is shooting large groups, it can get tricky with numbers…if its already 12 people, who really thinks about adding two or three more…?
Seriously, one hell of a comeback! The pictures are absolutely stunning! I love every bit of SF you captured! and the couple and their emotion and interaction… so beautiful!
all is forgiven… I am looking forward to my sessions I have booked this summer you are such a source of inspiration.
Best shots by far!! I am jealous, I want these of me and my husband. These two are so hot!!! So many favorites, but the taxi, OMG!!! Great way to comeback to the blogging world. You were missed!!
More than made up from your absence! Beautiful photos!
As usual, your photos leave me breathless. But oh my God, that last one of the starfish doggies….so. great.
that’s pretty good, no i mean the photos are WONDERFUL!
and how great to have such a wonderful best friend!
all women should be so blessed!
oh and you will be back on my good side, when i see some pictures of your 4!~
tara
You are awesome, dude.
Jalayne looks HOT.
: )
I *love* the bluriness of that photoshopped pic! it’s perfect!
all great shots :)
Ohh.. love the blog comeback!! you rocked it Chika..Lovin’ you maaan!!
awesome awesome awesome!
as usual!
you are soooo good!
Amazing . . . wecome back . . . thank you!
OHmyGosh. love those, specially the tv and the taxi… and the family shots are so awesome. those fat baby feet with sand, just all kinds of AWWWW! I love seeing your work, thanks for sharing!
Holy Cow, breathless, stunning, glorious! You truly blow me away with your artistic eye. One of many favorites of this shoot—the one of Justin sitting on the textural tile, Jalayne looking up… (ack, now I’m late for work!)
thanks tara. no….we don’t shoot big groups. it has just happened twice where a larger group then what was discussed showed up. it’s awkward…and leaves us feeling between a rock and a hard place. maybe i need to work on my pre-shoot interview….maybe. thanks for the input.
I love these Tara. :-)
the dogs with the starfish…..so in love/lust with that shot….what kind of dog is torch?
It looks like they were made for each other.
WHO HOO!! Great post! You’re totally back in my good graces (not that you care since we’ve never met but…ya know) :)
LOVE all the pictures….and I especially love the pictures of the dogs- the last one I think is my favorite! welcome back! :)
*love* *love* *love* these shots!!! So inspiring! And how could you ever be on somebody’s bad side?? :)
Tara-Great comeback. Your photos evoke so much emotion. I want to be just like you when I grow up! Oh, wait, I’m almost 39 :)
I am glad you are back……I LOVE the pic with the dogs and the starfish…that is just the cutest thing!!
suzi-Australian Shepherd. His markings are what is described as a Red-Tri.
lovely to see you back :-)
and appreciating the inspiration. LOVE that family shot too.
little did you know you were never NOT on my goodside….blogging or not.
but i THANK YOU for posting anyway because i needed a fix….it was either your photos or dessert tonight….and these images are more delicious than gelato.
You were never on my bad side. :o)
I am delighted and inspired and happy. You are a wonder.
These are simply amazing.. and I love the backstory.. reallyh amzing stuff here Tara.
Well, you were NEVER on my bad side but this has definitely propelled you into that “golden” light! Great photos.
2 posts in 2 days; you rock! and i hope this is the beginning of a trend! its always a happy day for me to see some of your photos, but sometimes we all need a break. hope posting is fun for you and not a chore! happy day!! :)
Gorgeous photos! The final image of the dogs in the water…..FANTASTIC!
Heck yeah Tara! I missed ya!
loved, loved, loved it! Great to see you back in action!
show off! just kidding! you amaze me girl. jalayne and justin are bee u ti ful. so so glad you are back. i have missed you old friend.
smiles
ria
Yup. Back on the good side. I wish I was in Carmel. I sooo want to be in California, right now. Thanks for sharing beautiful pics.
I can never get enough of your photos. Fun & awesome!! Love them.
nice comeback!
Rockin’ post!! Love the back story and the pics! It’s funny how you feel so much like a friend, because I read about your life. I’ve only spent a handful of time with you;0) keep on keepin on! I look forward to keeping up on all things TW!
that was worth the wait
OH my! perfection… the blurry couple photo said to me, “everything fades away and it’s just me and you”, just awesome…
and those dogs in the ocean that look like they are saving a star fish? I’d have that baby blown up and hung in my house!
blessings <3
Thank you, Tara!! It’s so nice to have you back again…I’ve missed you!
LOVE your blogging comeback! You have such an eye! I love seeing what you come up with in your photoshoots! Your rocked this engagement shoot! Makes me want to get engaged all over again.