Not everyone has to be looking


This is one of the families that I photographed while in NYC.

While figuring out what I wanted to post today, I realized I was drawn to the images that included their whole family, which is actually rare for me. But I realized it was because they weren’t all trying to look or smile at the camera for me. They were just THERE. And that is what I was drawn to.

FYI : I don’t think that everyone has to be looking at the camera to make a family photo meaningful.

In fact, I hope they won’t be.

 

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  1. And perhaps that is why I like my blurry ones that the camera takes by itself…
    they are beautiful life moments.
    intimate.
    not even planned by my eye :o)

  2. Agreed… My favorite photos are where people are looking away, or you don’t see their faces at all… It captures raw emotion of everyday life… More people need to stop and see how beautiful they are when they don’t realize it..

  3. Great photographs. I would be thrilled to have photographs like these ones of my own family. Especially the ones in which everyone is being .. well… themselves by looking at something totally different without paying attention to the camera. Love it!

  4. I could not agree with you more. When I looked at these photos I thought how cool it was to capture this family in their normal but so special moments in a day…in front of their school bus! Love it. Some of the strongest family photos I’ve seen are when at least one person is looking away from the camera. I don’t know what it is, more intimate somehow. Like you peeked in on them.

  5. to be a beautiful mirror for a family, to show them intact, attune to each other, moving to their own rhythms…that’s an honest portrait and a special gift. these are the moments whose feelings we remember, but almost never have a photographic memory to accompany. you really see the in between moments where the heartbeat of a family resides. just lovely.

  6. Gosh, I wish we could convince the “average” client that…at least MY average client! I think what makes your photos so beautiful is you show that interaction with each other. That is what good photos are about. More importantly, that’s what a good life is about :-)

  7. I am ALWAYS more drawn to the family photos where they are more into what’s happening with THEM rather than looking at the camera. It’s certainly not the traditional family portrait ideal, but who cares about that? not me. not you. and not the people who are good fit clients! :o)
    these are gorgeous, tara.

  8. That’s it…you and Shannon Leith are my two favorite photographer’s ever…EVER!!

    I am in love with this…that family is so beautiful…you captured the city like no other.

    Happy Holiday’s to you!!!

    Thank-you for sharing your beautiful posts and your stories. :)

  9. {gas} These images are amazing. I haven’t looked at your work in a while and forgot how you get these awesome images… what an eye you have. These are just too cool. Anyway hope you’re feeling well, and getting the renewal (is that the right word) that you need! Sending you positive energy from Texas!

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