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weekend challenge: grateful

Last week, Dana Pugh from Short and Sweet Photography updated her Twitter feed with:

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She replied:

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And it was on. However, Saturday came and went without me picking up my camera. Not because I didn’t have things I was grateful for…actually I had a lot to be grateful for that day. Sleeping in, cleaning up the house together, my family, Pixar genius, nachos, Anna sitting next to me sharing every giggle, my uncle Michael coming over with board games to play with the boys, Shane and Rachel joining us for dinner, and a nice long conversation after the kids went to bed. But the camera didn’t come out. I was lazy.

So Sunday I was determined to do what I had planned. The day started with a newborn photo shoot. I drove south, towards San Diego. We Southern Californians were graced with our first day of blue sky and sun in WEEKS. I drove with my windows down, soaking in the ocean as I flew past San Clemente and into Oceanside. There is a long stretch of highway where the ocean is just. right. there. with nothing to block the view. It is hard to drive with your eyes on the road. Mine always drift over to the water. But I didn’t stop and take a photo. I had my newborn shoot.

I am grateful for my job. I am grateful that I get paid so well for doing something that I deeply love. I am grateful there are people in this world who choose me, out of the millions of options. Thank you, dear sweet people. Thank you.

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I am grateful for fresh flowers. I am grateful I can afford to spend some of our money on fresh flowers every week. I am grateful my grocery store has such a beautiful selection. I love having flowers on my table, above my kitchen sink, in window-sills through-out my house…I love picking them out every few weeks with Anna.

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I am grateful for art. Especially the art they bring home from school or create on the floors and tables and corners of the house.

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I am grateful that I have the ability to pay someone else to clean my house. That I am helping to support a single mom in this economy. That I don’t have to do laundry, or mop the floor, or scrub the toilets. That I can spend the time I would be doing that with my family or doing projects around the house. I am grateful that once a week, my house gets the Olivia treatment. I am grateful for her hard work. Her shoes on my front step always make me smile.

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I am most grateful for us. That we get to spend so much time together. That we actually LIKE to spend so much time together. I am grateful that he is our leader. I am grateful for his sense of humor, the way he smells, how warm and smooth he feels when we snuggle together, that he always knows the right answer. I am grateful we have made it this far, I am grateful for the hard work we have both done in order to have made it this far. That learning more about how we work is important to him. I am grateful that he takes off my glasses and turns off my light most nights, even after I have sworn up and down that “No, I am not falling asleep yet…zzzzz.” I am grateful that he goes grocery shopping. That he loves music as much as I do, even if it isn’t always the kind that I like. I am grateful my children have him as a father. I am grateful for all the days passed, and all the days to come.

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You can find Dana’s challenge here. If you participated, please link in the comment section! :)

xo

by Tara Whitney

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Ellen Patton - cool post.

dana pugh - I, of course, am grateful for you :) your images are lovely. I think I will go buy fresh flowers right this second. thank you...

April - Love the idea of doing this with a friend. Might have to steel it. BTW, that infant is the cutest baby in the world. wink wink

michelle - Beautiful!!! :) Seems we are grateful for quite a few similar things! :) I'm especially thankful for our house being cleaned every other Friday, too. That has given me a freedom that I never knew I needed until I had it. :)

Heather - Beautiful post. Love the kiddo art. Smiling Nate-too cute! Knowing that you keep your house full of fresh flowers makes me smile!

Jennifer Chaney - Beautiful post, Tara... I love the comments about your house help and just seeing her shoes was a peek into your life and gratitude. The thoughts on your husband are so sweet and sincere. Thanks so much for putting on the challenge! I cheated and posted mine last night...

~SarahInParis~ - LOVE this post Tara. Your images are just fabulous. My fave is the flowers. I will be grateful one day when I finally get to California for you to take our family photos. In the meantime here is my 'Grateful' post (with a french flavour!) ... http://www.sarahgardan.com/blog/?p=2419

lyndsay - oh gosh, that last photo is perfect. the size of your computer against his made me LOL

Ali - Love this Tara

Rachel - Mine is ready to go, but I won't have time to post until this afternoon. Will be up by 5pm! www.rachelclarephoto.com/blog

Lisa - What a wonderful idea. Great post! Off to shoot some photos!

julie - Ahhhhh, I love that last one. How sweet. Thanks for sharing all of these wonderful images. Makes me wanna go snuggle right now :) Here are mine- http://www.jewelimage.ca/blog/ I did mine on images that express gratitude, but now I want to go and capture everything that I am grateful for!!

Lazy Mom Leslie - I am feeling a challenge coming on and I am grateful! Thanks for sharing!

aris wells - this is beautiful. you are so beautiful. i'm grateful one day i found the link to you website. you are such an inspiration, not only for the gorgeous images you capture but for the soul they have, for the way you write about your family, about your friends, about flowers and about your wonderful olivia. thanks for sharing all the beauty in your life with the rest of us. i'm your fan. i'm your HUGE fan aris

tara pollard pakosta - awesome tara. love this post. tara pp

Rebecca - Phew, almost didn't make it. Great Idea girls, thanks!! http://www.rebeccamurphyphotoblog.com/

apryl - love this, saw it on fb, love the image of you & jeff, i need more pictures like this of me & my husband, just everyday stuff...

michelle - it is CRAZY how talented you are!!!!! love it

michelle - OH YAH. dang forgot. you should be grateful he doesn't have screen envy. *wink*

Brown Girl - So beautifully put. Love your work!

Shelley Haganman - Beatiful post!

Christie - I love your blog. I love this post. I love that your monitor is twice the size of his. And I would love an Olivia too. :)

rebecca - TW you SO should get a dog! They make life better! And I want to adopt your fresh flowers tradition, I would love that! And they smell so nice!

Patsy - I am so going to have to do this!

Kirsten - Can I just say? Eric and I have been married 23+ years...and when I doze off wearing my glasses, reading a magazine or book...he TAKES PICTURES OF ME!!!! And thank YOU, girlie - you're the best :)

jenny d - tara, often when i come to your blog and read your words i think they are words that i could have written myself... our lives are on some sort of parrallel. and your photos are always ones that speak to me. always. cheers, jen

Goddess Leonie @ GoddessGuidebook.com - so very beyoooootiful. so much love, so much joy. and hey! i had a wacky dream of you last night. where your big family came to meet my big family, and we got to play around with my parent's miniature ponies. it was FUN! :)

Steph - Niiice.

melissa deakin - loved reading this & looking at all your amazing photos! you are an inspiration to so many!

Ally - I am grateful for YOU! Your words were touching and sweet and made me almost teary and I wanted you to know that I always, always love what I see and read here (even if I don't always let you know).

erika verginelli - I absolutely loved this post! Loved your words! Thank you ;-)

angela - i {heart} you, miss tara whitney. i don't know you IRL....but i *feel* like i do simply because you wear your heart on your sleeve and inspire my own heart. as a fellow mom, wife and photographer......YOU ROCK. wishing you many more thankful days.....and buckets of blessing on you and your sweet family.

Stacy - You are such an inspiration. Loved reading this.

Tracie Rabago - Tara...you are sweet. ...and I mean that in the best sense possible. Totally. :) Tracie

Shannon - I SO need to do this. I get so busy photographing everyone else, I forget to shoot my own family and definitely MYSELF! BUT, this I can handle. I'm thankful for so many things - this is going to be a new personal project of mine. Wouldn't it be cool to have it slurped into a photobook!

Rebecca B - I am a client/friend of the amazingly beautiful Jenny drake and saw her "I was going to do this but didnt' have time but then sort of did it" response to this challenge and with that I smiled and teared up at her pictures and gratitude for her life. And you sweet girl did the same as well for me....what is with you women making me cry at work! hehehehe But such amazing tears...so I will tell you as I told Jenny...I am grateful for people who create such a capture of images of life, of people and love for the good and the bad...for they help remind me to stop and feel through out the day. Your part about your man...choked me up huge...so happy you have such a love!

Abby Todd - love this post - feels so real - even if its about another family - it sounds like its my sister talking to me! Maybe its because I get my dose of Tara Whitney every other day and you are part of my daily web ritual... thanks Tara for making such good reads.

Anna Bennett - Love this post... I'm inspired!

leesia - LOVE this. i need something like this every monday!

Kim - Your thankfulness towards your Husband is Beautiful!!! That is all I can say. :-)

Lisa R. - What a great idea! I love this challenge and plan to join in. Your photos are beautiful! Thanks for sharing bits of your life. You know, I used to buy fresh flowers for our house once a week, but haven't in soooo long. I think I'll pick some up today :)

heather ives - wonderful post. thanks for sharing

gina - i participated, tara...

Maria Nissen - What a great list. LOVED the photo of you and your sweetheart husband...loved the light in the room...loved your wonderful words about him and the two of you. I feel exactly the same way about my husband. It's great to be married to your best friend, still after all these years. (22 married years for us, but he's been my boyfriend for 27)

Heather Ward - Wow! That last one about had me in tears! Now I feel like mine is kind of lacking some sentiment! lol. :) Thanks for sharing! That was a fabulous post!!!

Brenda - I love this post so much. Thanks for reminding me how much I already have. (although a housekeeper would be nice!)

Tina Bazala - Thank you for always being so real and staying so true to yourself!

Puanani - Thank you...http://puanani-puanani.blogspot.com/

Thea - I am grateful to you and how your post just made my heart swell! I also am forwarding this to my husband because the words you used to describe yours made me coo to my computer "Oh I feel the same about my guy....mine does too" over and over. love and kisses sweet thing you T

Susan Hessler - Tara, your post made me cry. Your relationships are priceless, and you are lovely. Peace. Susan

wendy - Oh, how I adore this challenge. How nice it has been to see everyone else’s gratitude! Thanks for issuing the challenge. http://littleredworkshop.com/blog/

kay* - this is a wonderful idea! - i'm going to give it a try this weekend!

Meredith - Thank you so much for this challenge. It made out for a wonderful day and an awesome blog post (www.mermiller.blogspot.com)! You have such a beautiful heart, thanks for sharing it!

daniel Sach - Good Times. I cannot count the hours log at my desk!

Lindy - Awesome! I love grateful lists! I teared up a bit. I'm not going to lie. :)

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