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not my best friends wedding, just her loveshoot • justin and jalayne • san francisco photo shoot

jalayne and i met in mrs. stonebreakers class.

in the ninth grade.

we hated each other. but only at first, and only when we tried really really hard. because as it turned out, we actually really liked each other. a lot. and we were pretty much attached at the hip from 9th-12th grade. we even went to the same college as planned, but it got a little complicated after that with me getting married and knocked up (not in that order) and her finishing college and graduating and traveling and working and studying. even through the complicated bits we did our best to remain connected and it was always amazing when we did make time for the phone call or the visit, how easily we fell back into our worn in friendship.

jalayne is like my barometer. she knew me when. we have history. we have a story. and the best part, we’ve been a part of each others stories for going on almost 20 years.

she was the girl i used to skip through magic mountain with, trailing our boys behind us, sucking on mustard packets.

the girl who babysat my sisters with me, even when neither of us wanted to.

the girl who i snuck around with, but forgot to tell her, and who i got caught without.

the girl who would make her government tests readily available for my prying eyes.

the girl i modeled with and photographed in my parents home.

the girl whose bedroom i knew as well as my own because we shared equal time between the two.

she went through my country/hip hop/metal phase with me.

she helped me through a miscarriage. she taught me about Jyotish. and last october, she asked me to come up north for the weekend to photograph her family. and i did.

we started out with jalayne and her awesome boyfriend justin. justin has lived in san francisco for something like 15 years? works in the castro. apt in the tenderloin. so thats exactly where we hung out. after a quick shopping trip for a new shirt for jalayne, and sushi at blowfish, i put them right to work.

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got crazy with the photoshop here, but i dig it!

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i have always LOVED jalaynes face. i quickly came to love justin’s as well. i love these next three.

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random old tv sighting, tara runs them across the street to work this OUT.

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somebody named justin wasnt too KEEN on sitting here. i take no prisoners. he learned quickly. and jalayne, oh jalayne….that look. BEAUTY! CONTENT!

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LOVE the body language here.

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justin is an amazing carpenter. he isnt just a carpenter. he is an artist. he has PASSION for this. he makes the most amazing furniture and cabinetry. when i saw this plywood wall i had to get him in front of it.

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“so guys, what tricks can you do?”

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this was at the beginning when they were still warming up. so a little nervous, a little goofy. i LOVE the expressions. photos taken one right after the other.

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one of their hang outs. the bar at the grand.

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justin rocking the deck shoes. LOVE!

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this one might be my favorite. she looks so safe. he looks so strong. they look so content.

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how did i luck out to find a PARKED/ABANDONED taxi???

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as the sky darkened, we got in the car and headed up to carmel, where her parents own property on a preserve. on our second day together, because she is my best friend, AND ONLY BECAUSE SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND, i agreed to shoot their entire family together. ;) i normally run screaming from the “large family group session”. just not what i like to do! but for the people i love, how can i say no? :)

just before i brought EVERYONE outside though, i wanted to get some of the two of them with their doggies. Django (the lab) and Torch. this is torchie. the most gorgeous little love of a dog ive ever met. torch is their new little boy.

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and django,  who has been jalaynes best girl for many years, and who is possibly the smartest dog ive ever met. she understands english. im not kidding. like, CONVERSATION.

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sweet old girl

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and then i brought everyone outh016

this is her brother bryan and his family, her mom sherri, and her stepdad jerry. we also did some of the parentals in and around their AMAAAAAZING house.

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on the third day, we headed into monterey for the shoot with her brother and his wife summer and their two little men. i LOVE the emotion, laughter, color on these!

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and i LOVE this one. perfect family shot. not too contrived, everyone doing their thing, momma looking RADIANT.

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oh, just one more of the doggies. at the beach. fetching a starfish stuffy out of the waves.

jj096so hows that for a blogging comeback? am i back on your good sides?

NML - LOVE the photos of Justin and Jalayne - such spirit and life in all of them.

Bethany F Photography - Tara! I love your blog. Your photos are alllllll eye candy!

Gale - Love the taxi shot & the dogs in the water with their toy!

AshleyM - WOW!! These are beautiful! It makes me sad that you were in Monterey and Carmel! I went to school in Monterey and got married on the beach in Carmel. Man, I miss those days. : )

Goddess Leonie - These shots are soooooo gorgeous... What beautiful souls! What love! What a gorgeous family! And puppehs, don't get me started on the puppehs ;) Welcome back to your blogoverse, Queen Tara! :)

Suzanne Duda - Beauty has returned to my life....thank you for coming back!

Julie - Tara's back with an amazing post! Love these. And that crazy photoshop on #2 is workin' just fine. Just fine indeed!

Deann B. - Wow-ee! I complain about how long weddings can go, but three days back to back? And you never once lost your mojo! The light, THOSE TREES, and that killer taxi cab shot. Verrrrrry nice.

kim, crazy lover of every picture you take, in nj - is your bff's residence a big one? she's gonna need some awfully big rooms with big walls to hang every one of these pictures up!! i swear. you make me speechless.

Le Anne - Jalayne looks as gorgeous as she did in high school. I was ALWAYS envious of 1) her beautiful face and 2) your friendship...sorry but it was something between two girls that I always wanted and never had. She looks so happy, it almost brings tears to my eyes! Bryan's oldest looks just like a "lil' Bryan"! They are such a great family. Oh, I love her mom's little yarn shelf in the background...I want that! What more can I say, thanks for sharing such lovely pictures of THE LOVELY JALAYNE! Please send her a great big hello from me!

Amber Nichole - u rock. seriously. :o)

jodie - you were missed but i understand wanting to hole up with your babies... when you do officially "come back" we'll all still be here! :)

Lydia - Oh, I just love these! I just feel creative after looking at your pictures!

Puanani - First of all, I love the teeth. Both of them have fabulous teeth! Second, the doggies and the starfish, oh my...

shawn - yes yes and yes double time!! love your photos...someday in my dreams i'll take pictures like you!

Jamie - Amazingly beautiful pictures. Welcome back. =)

alison@alisonbickel. - Friendships like that are such a gift. Knowing someone so long they are really just like a part of your family. Thank you for sharing these beautiful pictures.

Katherine - What a way to come back in style! We missed you- good to see you back on the blog block.

Donnelly - Tara, Lovely story with photos to match! I think I love the stories almost as much as I love the photos. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Have a great day. Donnelly

amber - you're forgiven about the mia thing. you know we can't stay mad at you. :)

Heidi Fazio - love these shots, they are one lucky couple and one lucky family!!! I love the teeth, too. your close ups are amazing. thank you for the inspiration and go be a stay at home mom, don't worry about us blog stalkers.

Ashley - Tara, I love all your photos. But I have to say that when you photograph someone you love, your work just shines!! I love taking pictures of people I love too. You are inspirational.

Kathleen - yeppers! You're on the good side...awesome photos!

Stacie - I always love your photos.....but I especially love the ones of these dogs.....our dogs are our "kids", (YES, I know the difference between "people kids" and "dog kids."!) We live in the Bay area, I know San Fran is one of your favorite spots, one fine day you'll take our pictures.....I just know it! :)

Rachel - oh how i love these! perfection- all of them. you're a master, tara whitney.

Shanna N - How could we not LOVE you with that post!?!?!? AMAZING shots as always. So inspiring! Welcome Back! ;)

amanda mankin - woo hoo!! Welcome back-I LOVE them!! I promise, you were never on my bad side :) Just missed...

Maria Carey - Tara, have been a blog stalker for a long time..coming out of hiding to tell you that you have definitely redeemed yourself (LOL!)..for me especially with these gorgeous puppy photos...all the best to you

amy j. - YAH...her triumphant return! Awe, Tara...you got massive amounts of talent in that pointer finger and eye of yours...massive. I ADORE that last shot of the dogs swimming in together. Keep em comin!!

tania - wow. the taxi photo is ROCKIN'. i think you're forgiven tara....just don't let it happen again, ya hear? LOL.

Rachel - absolutely! :) lovely, beautiful, wonderful shots, as always. you are SO talented.

Kim - Wow Tara! Welcome back! :) What amazing pictures! Love love love them all!

abigail - Wow! Simply stunning work! I love every single picture! ~Abigail

valerie - oh sweetie, you never left MY good side! i'm so glad you're back, see your photos makes me feel all happy inside. i missed you!

Lisa Damrosch - yes...thank you vedddy much!!!!

Shanna - You are so far on my good side now! What a comeback. I wish we had a wall with painted elephants on it around here. I think that was my favorite.

haylie - i never comment but i had to on this post. i've always loved your talent but i can really see the love in these photos! i had to pick my jaw up off the floor when i saw the taxi cab shot. i love how you talk about those you love too. you're just lovely :)

vivienne - fabulous comeback! and what a beautiful collection of images and stories!

Amber - What a comeback - amazing pictures! Just beautiful...and I love your whole before story....made me remember my best friend in high school!

Zarah - Wow...!! STUNNING photos!

Suzannah - took my breath away! what a comeback welcome back Tara!

Claire - Just love what you do !!!!

bobbi - these are incredible Tara... incredible. I LOVE how real and open you are. Such a rarity. Can I be you when I grow up?

Sarah Wellmeier - Welcome back Tara!! That was awesome. I feel ya on the stay at home momma part. This is my biggest struggle. I feel guilty far more than I feel great. Great Work:)

Clair - WOWSERS!!!

Zaida - just adore the blogging! thanks for all the color, light, and emotion. sending you happiness and positive vibes since you do that for your blog peekers.

margie - You are the absolute best. VERY, VERY BEST. I just am so happy to see each and everything you do.

Belinda - Finally! I loved them all, but the dogs and the starfish is my favorite. I'm probably the only one who picked that one, but for some reason it just is. I think I just like seeing teamwork at it's best!

kp - YOU ARE SO TALENTED! Nothing like roaring back with a vengance...

karlalala - AWESOME!!! as usual!!!

mindy - don't know you personally....but missed you! Welcome back and I LOVE the taxi image.

Sarie - AM----A----ZING. You inspire me to the outskirts of the sky and beyond. Thank you Thank you!

Jenny - you were so never in my bad books. but i love all the pics. ATE 'EM UP.

Cindi - WOW! Jaw dropping on the floor WOW! Are you coming to Chicago at all this year? Please say yes. Pretty please...

suetreiber - always, Tara! So much awesomeness in these pix I don't which to love more.

Mary - You will always be on our good side because you are AMAZING!

jeramy - wonderful shots! i love the ones on the street. excellent! something you said made me think of a question. sharon has run into this a couple of times now. you discuss a shoot with a client. you schedule it. you show up...then the whole family is there instead of just the 4 grand kids like you've been told and agreed on. what do you do in the moment? how do you not look like a jerk...but also keep a fair / contractual boundary right there in front of everyone? thoughts?

BLo - Hell, yeah, you are back! Love the inspiration from the pictures.

Tara Whitney - jeramy, ive never had that happen. but i am pretty clear that i only shoot one nuclear family at a time. if sharon is shooting large groups, it can get tricky with numbers...if its already 12 people, who really thinks about adding two or three more...?

Kate V - Seriously, one hell of a comeback! The pictures are absolutely stunning! I love every bit of SF you captured! and the couple and their emotion and interaction... so beautiful!

Tara M. - all is forgiven... I am looking forward to my sessions I have booked this summer you are such a source of inspiration.

tracy - Best shots by far!! I am jealous, I want these of me and my husband. These two are so hot!!! So many favorites, but the taxi, OMG!!! Great way to comeback to the blogging world. You were missed!!

Dina - More than made up from your absence! Beautiful photos!

Kristi - As usual, your photos leave me breathless. But oh my God, that last one of the starfish doggies....so. great.

tara pollard pakosta - that's pretty good, no i mean the photos are WONDERFUL! and how great to have such a wonderful best friend! all women should be so blessed! oh and you will be back on my good side, when i see some pictures of your 4!~ tara

cathy - You are awesome, dude. Jalayne looks HOT. : )

kate - I *love* the bluriness of that photoshopped pic! it's perfect! all great shots :)

teresa b - Ohh.. love the blog comeback!! you rocked it Chika..Lovin' you maaan!!

jessica - awesome awesome awesome! as usual! you are soooo good!

CindyG - Amazing . . . wecome back . . . thank you!

Joscie - OHmyGosh. love those, specially the tv and the taxi... and the family shots are so awesome. those fat baby feet with sand, just all kinds of AWWWW! I love seeing your work, thanks for sharing!

Jana - Holy Cow, breathless, stunning, glorious! You truly blow me away with your artistic eye. One of many favorites of this shoot---the one of Justin sitting on the textural tile, Jalayne looking up... (ack, now I'm late for work!)

jeramy - thanks tara. no....we don't shoot big groups. it has just happened twice where a larger group then what was discussed showed up. it's awkward...and leaves us feeling between a rock and a hard place. maybe i need to work on my pre-shoot interview....maybe. thanks for the input.

rachel - I love these Tara. :-)

suzi - the dogs with the starfish.....so in love/lust with that shot....what kind of dog is torch?

Kim - It looks like they were made for each other.

Molly W. - WHO HOO!! Great post! You're totally back in my good graces (not that you care since we've never met but...ya know) :)

shelley e - LOVE all the pictures....and I especially love the pictures of the dogs- the last one I think is my favorite! welcome back! :)

Trude - *love* *love* *love* these shots!!! So inspiring! And how could you ever be on somebody's bad side?? :)

Heather in NC - Tara-Great comeback. Your photos evoke so much emotion. I want to be just like you when I grow up! Oh, wait, I'm almost 39 :)

annie - I am glad you are back......I LOVE the pic with the dogs and the starfish...that is just the cutest thing!!

Tara Whitney - suzi-Australian Shepherd. His markings are what is described as a Red-Tri.

emma - lovely to see you back :-) and appreciating the inspiration. LOVE that family shot too.

Cheryl - little did you know you were never NOT on my goodside....blogging or not. but i THANK YOU for posting anyway because i needed a fix....it was either your photos or dessert tonight....and these images are more delicious than gelato.

Miz Booshay - You were never on my bad side. :o) I am delighted and inspired and happy. You are a wonder.

elizabeth - These are simply amazing.. and I love the backstory.. reallyh amzing stuff here Tara.

Michelle Davies - Well, you were NEVER on my bad side but this has definitely propelled you into that "golden" light! Great photos.

Gina - 2 posts in 2 days; you rock! and i hope this is the beginning of a trend! its always a happy day for me to see some of your photos, but sometimes we all need a break. hope posting is fun for you and not a chore! happy day!! :)

Stacy - Gorgeous photos! The final image of the dogs in the water.....FANTASTIC!

Alexandra - Heck yeah Tara! I missed ya!

kati gross - loved, loved, loved it! Great to see you back in action!

ria - show off! just kidding! you amaze me girl. jalayne and justin are bee u ti ful. so so glad you are back. i have missed you old friend. smiles ria

Monnah - Yup. Back on the good side. I wish I was in Carmel. I sooo want to be in California, right now. Thanks for sharing beautiful pics.

Courtney Newbauer - I can never get enough of your photos. Fun & awesome!! Love them.

daniel lamont - nice comeback!

Katrina - Rockin' post!! Love the back story and the pics! It's funny how you feel so much like a friend, because I read about your life. I've only spent a handful of time with you;0) keep on keepin on! I look forward to keeping up on all things TW!

rosie - that was worth the wait

Laurie - OH my! perfection... the blurry couple photo said to me, "everything fades away and it's just me and you", just awesome... and those dogs in the ocean that look like they are saving a star fish? I'd have that baby blown up and hung in my house! blessings <3

Jody - Thank you, Tara!! It's so nice to have you back again...I've missed you!

Jennifer N - LOVE your blogging comeback! You have such an eye! I love seeing what you come up with in your photoshoots! Your rocked this engagement shoot! Makes me want to get engaged all over again.

Michelle - Ya , these are killer Tara!!! Your friend and her boyfriend are a beautiful couple...love their style!

lisamcg - LOVE IT!!!!! These are fracking rad! All of them. Holy coolness!

Tami Foulger - Love it. The kissing on the taxi car is hot. They will love that forever! You rock. Tami

susan - I love all of these pictures, but that last one is fabulous....i love how both dogs are or at least seem to be holding the star together!! Love it!

Candy Howard - Yes, with a vengeance!

Shelley Haganman - Yes!! Thanks for being back! :)

chrissi - It is great to have you back, but mostly, I'm glad you had a great break with your beautiful family. :)

Beth - Are you on my good side....???? UMMM heck yeah... you rocked this trip/session!

Sylvia - They look perfect together! Bravo!

lilia - Oh, Tara!!! These are just freaking amazing - you continue to take my breath away!!! Just, wow.

Mel - love love love all of these!!

Laurie Takens - Girl - you are so back on my good side!! I have missed you and your amazing photography. I live in Michigan, my brother lives in Laguna Hills - the next time I go out there for a visit, I would so LOVE to meet you. I can't afford to have you take our pics, but it would be an honor to meet the mind behind the camera of these shots! :)

arianne - SO glad you are back...ok, I am done being mad that you were MIA for so long! Best wishes to you!

AnnEliz - Beautiful - you have made quite the come back - in full force. I love your work.

rachel carlson - a SWEEEEET comeback post t, LOVE it! your style is still so inspiring and i'm happy to see that you are still at it, love, guts and all. cheers and HUGE hugs, rach

carolyn bowles - wow tara! i love the taxi shot!!!! and i love the family shot. do you mind me asking how you got the perfect exposure as the sun looked a little tricky? love to hear how you did it! :)

Pam AKA Tara's Mom - The blogging comeback is good!!!!!!!! but I still miss hearing your voice.........???? I LOVE the pictures of my other daughter (as I call her) she was at my house all the time....Have so many wonderful memories... Jalayne AND Sherri I MISS YOU.....Good to see you all happy and I see still so beautiful. Love the family pictures and the shot on the Taxi indescribable! Great Job Daughter!!

cblackstone - you rocked it she looks like a professional athlete - love her look love the one of him smoking great shots T you complete me:)

donab - That kiss on the taxicab hood shot is HOT.

julia williams - I have to say... I have a red tri aussie, who I thought was the most gorgeous dog... but Torch puts my little moosey to shame! Beautiful photos!

Linda WISSMAN - It was nice to see Justin ,since I'm his aunt living in AZ. I haven't seen him for the last twelve years. He has not changed a lot. your pictures are beautiful. Jalayne is beautiful. I'm so happy for their happiness. LINDA

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